Hello servers once again.Mr biz once again bringing you some good old server advice.Servers I know sometimes people can be very rude and impatient but sometimes think about when you are going out and somebody like the person you are with,just pissed you off.Now most people like me would not even go out and eat because I cant enjoy my expierance.Sometimes you might already be there and hungry and you just want to eat.Then you have your server come over and your not rude,{note this is not excuse for rude people.because frankly you are just damn rude}Anyway your not rude,but just not up to being very friendly so you dont really interact with your server and the server is thinking damn these people are going to give me a hard time and if the server messes up you do give them a hard time.Server's listen we all go there we all have bad days, these people are usually pretty good guests, but the day is just not their day{note this is not excuse for rude people,frankly you are just damn rude}Anyway this is how you deal with them first they are not in a good mood,so dont try to make them laugh are ask to many question just simply take their order make sure it is right and make sure their cup never goes empty.Now I know you are like wait a minute that is what you are supposed to do and you are right,but sometimes us as good servers think that we can change their mood by being extra nice and extra conversational,but the truth is everything in their day has went wrong so you being all in their face trying to lighten the mood just irritates them more because they want to be left alone,but if you just simply make sure everything is right and thier food is hot and fresh and they dont have to ask for refills, then something in their whole day has went right and I bet you that by the time you bring that check out,that they are going to tell you what excellent service you gave them and leave you a decent tip.Now iam not talking about the rude non tippers,these people anything you do will be wrong so they can have an excuse not to tip,but the people who are in just a bad mood will lighten up and we respect the service you brought to them and in the long run leave you a decent tip,because you the good server has made apart of their day enjoyable.Now I know that sounds crazy but it is true, because I myself have been that guest just in a bad mood but by my server giving me my space and getting everything right the first time put me in a good mood,and nine times out of ten I will request that same server everytime I eat there.Until next time serve well, tip well, and be well.